Vicki Pavitt
expertLocation
Kent, UK
Areas of Speciality
Credentials & Qualifications
- BSc Psychology 2:1, University of Southampton
- Licensed Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, The Society of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
- Advanced Practitioner of Emotional Freedom Techniques, Level 3, AAMET
Nearest available session
November 2, 2026 - 07:00 PM - 08:00 PM
Times shown in Europe/London
Private 1:1 Sessions
Work with Vicki
Move Forward in Love: Overcome Dating Procrastination
$175.00Define what you want from dating, identify what has kept you stuck, and leave with an authentic, manageable activation plan for taking action.
Making and Keeping Friends in Midlife
$99.00Explore what you want from friendship and create a manageable connection plan with meaningful outreach ideas, healthy boundaries, and shared effort.
Swipe-Worthy: Craft Your Perfect Dating Profile
$175.00Turn dating-profile dread into a polished, authentic profile with step-by-step coaching—and leave ready to publish it with confidence.
Dating Reset: Find Your Spark Again
$175.00Move through dating fatigue with support, define your relationship vision and non-negotiables, and create healthier habits for moving forward.
Dating After 50
$99.00Rebuild your dating confidence, clarify what you want, and create a practical strategy for dating with greater intention, self-trust, and ease.
Vicki Pavitt
Dating and Relationship Coach
A session with me is like…
Healing for your heart, an exhale for your nervous system, and practical guidance on how to move forward and create more fulfillment in dating and relationships.
One life experience that helps me relate to my clients is…
Healing my anxious attachment style and self-abandonment tendencies and transforming my relationship with myself—a journey that started 14 years ago and one that I am still on.
Three things I want clients to feel post-session are…
Inspired, open-hearted, and brave.
Past experience that qualifies me for this role is…
12 years' experience supporting clients as a Dating and Relationship Coach
Former Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com
Creator of Wholehearted Dating, a coaching methodology developed and refined over 12 years
Watch this episode of Pull Me Out of This (https://youtu.be/9dT-xk2jpvA) to hear Vicki discuss why dating in midlife is a unique, nuanced experience and share how to transform fear into discernment and how to rebuild a life—and a heart—ready for healthy love. Hear about the identity shift to restructure relationships, starting from experience instead of from scratch, overcoming shame, and the power of dating yourself first.
I’m Vicki Pavitt, a Dating and Relationship Coach who helps big-hearted women heal their dating blocks and create secure, healthy love. I’m an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping) Practitioner, and an expert in Attachment Styles. I also previously served as the Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com.
Over the past 12 years, I’ve supported more than 1,000 women through the ups and downs of modern dating with a compassionate, empowering approach. Through my signature 1:1 program, Wholehearted Dating, I help clients date with intention and build relationships where they feel safe, seen, and loved.
My work has been featured in outlets like Grazia, Vanity Fair, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Marie Claire, Stylist, Elle, The Independent, Dazed, Radio Headspace, The Daily Telegraph, Red, BBC News, Psychologies, Heart FM, and the Evening Standard.
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